Difference between Ego and Attitude | Otta.com
People who stay under attitude are called egoistic and bad person so how we should behave and live our life? Attitude is a huge thing and small part of attitude is EGO, example if attitude is a continent then Ego is just a small country in it. Attitude can be divided into two group: First right attitude and second is wrong attitude. People get confuse between ego and attitude because ego is the part of wrong attitude but the best part is that you can be a good attitude person without having an ego. For example, Every China is an Asian, but every Asian will be Chinese is not compulsory. Similarly, Every Egoistic person will for sure have attitude, but person who has attitude doesn't have Ego, hence even you should be a person who has attitude. You shouldn't be a person who is egoistic or who has a bad attitude. |
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Peoples always stays in one stage out of three: First stage is ASPIRING, Second is SUCCEEDING and Third is FAILING. First, Either person is aspiring, means working on something in order to achieve something in his/her life and want to become something in life. Second, either person has already achieved in his/her life, means he already faced success. Third, either person is falling in his life, he is not able to achieve anything huge in his life. But problem is the biggest or biggest obstacle which stands firm in front of us during all three stages to defeat us in nothing but our own EGO.
1.Aspiring stage
Example: He is Rohit, Rohit has seen a video related to body building. He loved that video and decided that he will for sure become a bodybuilder no matter what happens. After deciding, he went to his friends and start telling them about his decision. He says, that from now on he will do gym, he will have proper diet, will do cycle, jogging etc and become a bodybuilder just watch and see. With such enthusiasm he joins gym and post his first day workout pictures on social media pages. With this he started showing off more than his actions, he do less and show more after few days his entire motivation goes down and he return to his normal life. Well this happens to many people and the reason for this is EGO. Show off and talking same sources are required which is needed to complete our actual goals which is our time, mental physical health/ energy and our will power. And mostly we use all these and finish it just by showing off and talking.2. Succeeding
At age of 18 Howard Hughes took the biggest decision. He gave money to his relatives and bought 100% share of his family business and become owner of that company, it was an oil drill bit company. This was very bold decision because he wasn't much aware about the business but still it proved to be most brilliant move of his, Hughes shifted that company from 1 million dollar to 1 billion dollar and he become very successful, but his overconfidence or can say his EGO destroyed his success. The first huge success of Hughes made him believe that he is very talented and he can be successful in his any business hence he get into Aviation field, Film making and in stoke market but he faced a huge loss. Ego was the reason for this embarrassing end even after getting success he failed miserably. Most of the time when people get success then their ego shift them from humble and learning person to overconfident person about their capabilities. Therefore they failed to maintain their success and hence they loss everything in their lives.3. Failing
After many scandals and 300 million loss, company gave two options to american apparel founder dova Chaney, first opinion to resign as a CEO from the company and to work as creative consultant and for that he will get good pay or salary and second to resign and completely leave the company. At that time dova reject both options and choose the third and the worst option which was to fight. He filed a case against his company, he sue his company, instead of searching a better CEO for a company. His ego didn't allow him to think better for his company instead he destroyed his company as well as himself. After that case his life was so devastated that he used to sleep on his friend couch because he was bankrupt. Ego is something which never allow us to understand our own shortcomings and faults. When we fail to achieve something at that time instead of taking responsibility our ego starts making excuses start blaming world and others. Hence we do everything but never realize our mistakes and shortcomings. Similarly in every stage ego never allow us to move forward in our life.The question is if Ego is the biggest enemy then how to defeat it?
So the best ways through which you can fight with your ego is known as Addition subtraction equal to principle, which is teaches by great UFC fighter. He says that any one who want to be great fighter should keep three people along with them. First person who is better than his from whom he can learn, second person who is less better than him to whom he can teach and third person who is good as him to whom he can challenge and can grow. Similarly, you can use this formula and fight with your ego.
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